by Jerry Ousley
3/08/2008 / Christian
Living
Listening is an art. We don't think about it much but really,
it is. I
know a few people who are very hard to talk to because frankly they
don't know how to listen. They constantly interrupt and quite often
change the subject on you in mid-sentence. I hate talking to one
individual because he will ask a question and before you can finish
getting your answer or response out he's already interrupted with yet
another question. It's frustrating to talk with him. It gives you the
feeling that the person doing the interrupting really isn't interested
in what you've got to say. All they want to do is to talk.
But then, I can't stand completely guiltless in the matter.
I've
done that to Debbie many times and there's nothing more frustrating
between a husband and wife than lack of communication. I know there
have been times when she'd just rather not talk as to have me interrupt
her.
On the other hand there have also been times that I have
tried to be a
good listener and my lack of response has made her to think that I've
just tuned her out and she'll respond to that by asking, "Are you even
listening to me?" In her defense there have been times that I really
wasn't. When that happens I am wrong for that because it is imperative
for husbands and wives to communicate to each other. Besides, what she
is saying is probably really important and you know what happens when
you come back later and have to ask about that again.
Several times in the Gospels Jesus said this in variations:
"He
who has ears to hear let him hear." I know you've read those words. The
fact is most of us do have ears on the sides of our heads. Some may
have lost them for different reasons and there are some who are deaf
and can't hear. But Jesus wasn't leaving these folks out when He spoke
those words. What He was saying was, "Those who care to listen hear
what I am saying." When it comes to God's word there are many deaf
folks who hear better than those who have been graced with the sense of
hearing. Jesus was telling us that He had something very important to
say and we need to listen to Him listen to the point that we understand
what He is saying and then make it a part of our lives.
Many times a lot of us will say that we have forgotten
something.
There are times when this is a justifiable excuse but there are other
times when we have forgotten because we didn't listen well to begin
with. I know because I've done it. We need to listen when we hear or
read God's Word.
There are also times when we need to listen in prayer. Did
you
know that listening is a part of prayer? We sometimes think that we
need to do all the talking when we pray to God. We fill our mouths with
words and spew them forth like an erupting volcano. When we pray we
need to also have our hearts tuned in to God and hear what He is
telling us in our hearts. There are times He's got the answer ready for
us but we're too busy talking to listen.
Yes, there's no doubt that listening is an art. We need to
hone in
on this great attribute and learn to listen, not only to others but
also to God. When we read His word we need to listen. When we pray we
need to listen. So, are you listening?
Jerry D. Ousley is the Author of three
books, "Soul Challenge",
"Soul Journey" and "Ordeal." Listen to our daily broadcast Spirit
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