Change
Your Future
Copyright © 2007-2008 Deborah Brown-Volkman
Are you focused on the past or the potential your future holds'
Many people can't let go of something that happened A long time ago.
Maybe it was a conversation you had, or didn't have. Maybe it was a
project you should have taken, or one that you let pass by. Maybe it
was something you said on an interview, or didn't say.
Everyone has 'something' in their career that they wish they could
change. So, know that you are not alone. It's not what happened that
matters most now, but what you do going forward.
So, How Do You Let Go Of Your Past And Change Your Future' Follow These
Four Steps Below:
1. Admit That Your Past Is Holding You Back
If you are angry or blaming someone, you are stuck. Being stuck means
that you are not taking action. After a while, it doesn't make a
difference who was right or wrong. What counts is your career, and it's
up to you to move it forward. It's ok to be upset about past mistakes.
It's ok to wish your career was in another place. Use that energy to
create something different for the future.
2. Look At What Happened Objectively
Recall the incident. (Or, incidents.) Rather than pushing your memories
away, let them float to the surface. Assess whether what happened to
you is a one time event or a recurring theme. Look for patterns, your
role in causing them, rather than what keeps 'happening' to you. Your
goal is to see your past from a new perspective. Once you know what the
problem is, then you can fix it.
3. Forgive Yourself
If someone told your 'story' to you, what would you say' How would you
react' You would probably be easy on the storyteller, while you are
most likely being hard on yourself. Recognize that you are human and
humans make mistakes. Gain strength from your newfound knowledge. You
are a better person because of what you have found out about yourself.
It's important to let go of what happened. The past does not determine
your future, you do. You can't change the past, but you can change the
path you are on now. Focus on your accomplishments and what you do
right. Get ready for the future. Leave the past where it belongs;
behind you.
4. Take Action
If your past no longer defines you, then you can live satisfied in the
present, while planning for the next steps in your career that inspire
you. Ask yourself, where you want your career to be one year from now.
Where do you want to be in three years, five years, or more' Write down
the steps you will take to get yourself there. (The more specific the
better.) Make a plan and put specific milestones into your calendar.
The good news is the weight will be lifted. You will be too engrossed
with your present goals to be held back from the past anymore. Your
momentum will begin to soar and you'll have the energy to take your
career to new heights.
So, what do you say' You only have one life to live, so it might as
well be a life you love!
About The Author:
| Deborah Brown-Volkman is the
President of Surpass Your Dreams, Inc. a successful career, life, and
mentor coaching company that works with Senior Executives, Vice
Presidents, and Managers who are looking for new career opportunities
or seek to become more productive in their current role. She is the
author of "Coach Yourself To A New Career" and "How To Feel Great At
Work Everyday." Deborah can be reached at http://www.surpassyourdreams.com
http://www.career-escape-program.com
info@surpassyourdreams.com or at (631) 874-2877
|
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