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Why Is It Important To Improve Your Self?
Sometimes, people wish that they were someone else, especially when all of their fears and insecurities become too much. During these vulnerable times they may find themselves thinking or even worse believing that most people are better than them. In reality, the fact is, everyone is scared and has insecurities- some worse than others.
Entrapped By Offense By Kris Belfils - Do you feel like you have been wondering in the wilderness for years and years? Does your Christian walk seem to go no where? Do you trip over the same obstacle(s) time and time again to find no freedom from the bondage you are experiencing? You could be a slave to something and you don't even know it.
The Call From Called To Chosen  When you’ve been called then, transformed into chosen there will be no need to announce it. Your chosen lifestyle will announce you.
God Chooses Whom He Will  The true story of a little girl forced to play softball with the big kids.  She learned a valuable life lesson:You may be a very funny-looking little girl, no one seems to want you on their team, but you have a Big Brother who does; His name is Jesus.  He wants you, he chooses you, he is calling out your name, and he goes before you.  Can you hear him beckon, ‘Come unto me?’
How Can Bible Study Help Kids Grow Up? Bible study is probably the number one way to keep your kids on the right path, and keep them out of trouble. We can\'t watch our kids all day and night, and we can\'t keep bad influences from coming to them. But what we CAN do is make sure they know wrong from right. This will help them when they face problems and major decisions on their own.
Foot In Mouth Disease By Jerry Ousley - There is a real disease that is commonly called "Foot AND Mouth Disease." I am in no way making fun of that terrible disease but it occurred to me that there is another disease that doesn't really affect the physical body, instead affecting the recesses of the mind. I appropriately call it "Foot IN Mouth Disease."
The Art of Giving  Have you ever wondered why money seems to run from you, or why your soul mate has not appeared? This may all have to do with your ability to give. There is a Universal art to giving that is powerful. Why not find out how giving will help you receive what you have hoped for?
Friday the 13th Could be a Lucky Day? A lot of people are having phobia of Friday the 13th, actually it\'s not that horrifying. Take a look at the resources provided and you will know better.
Is Your Faith Breakable or Unshakeable Much like the artisan that gathers the sand and processes it into wonderful, useful items, God wants to mold and shape you into a person of such faith that the attacks aimed at you will bounce off leaving no marks.
Hope has sailed into your life today Waiting for a miracle?  Hope is an eternal virtue of every Christian.  Never lose your hope!
Becoming No Ordinary Men What kind of man are you?  A Scarecrow? A Tin Man? A Cowardly Lion? A Wizard?

Why Is It Important To Improve Your Self?

By K. Faram

Sometimes, people wish that they were someone else, especially when all of their fears and insecurities become too much. During these vulnerable times they may find themselves thinking or even worse believing that most people are better than them. In reality, the fact is, everyone is scared and has insecurities- some worse than others.

You may be at a party, see a good-looking person sitting by himself casually sipping from his drink and think, “he looks so perfectly calm and confident.” And yet if you could only see inside his mind, you would see that isn’t the case at all. He might be thinking, “Is everyone looking at me because I’m alone?” …”Why hasn’t a girl come over and flirted with me?” …”I don’t know what to say to people. I’ll be alright after a few drinks.”

You look at outwardly successful people around you and can’t help thinking “They have everything.” But those people likely stare at themselves in the mirror and find all kinds of faults or dwell on problems, “I hate my nose… I wonder why my friends won’t talk to me… I need to pay off those loans.”

And that is the ironic thing. We constantly look at other people, envy them for being so perfect and wish we could trade places with them, while they look at us and think the same thing. We are insecure of other people who themselves are insecure of us. And our insecurity results in low self-esteem lack of self-confidence and we lose hope in self-improvement because we are enveloped in quiet desperation.

You may notice that you have an irritating habit like biting off your fingernails, or jumping to conclusions, and you – of all people, is the last to know. The trouble is, this habit may socially handicap you and gradually affect the people around you as others avoid the circles you’re in.

One key to self-improvement therefore is to talk and really listen to a trusted friend of yours. Find someone who you are comfortable in being completely honest with and they with you. Ask questions like “do you think I over-react in certain situations?” “Do I always sound so aggressive?”, “Am I boring?”. Listen intently to your friend’s comments and criticisms and try not to get defensive. Open up your mind and heart as well. And in return, you may want to help your friend with constructive criticism that will also help her improve her self.

Once you have made those self-improvements, let other people see what you have achieved for yourself and try to inspire other people. There is nothing like a positive effect on people and it will increase your self-esteem knowing that you are inspiring others to help themselves.

You need to stop thinking of yourself as a second-rate person and forget repetitive negative thoughts such as “If only I was richer… if only I was thinner” and so on. Accepting your true self is the first real step towards self-improvement. The worst thing you can do is to compare yourself to others and find more reasons to envy them.

Everybody has insecurities. It is a simple fact of life and what makes us human. Nobody is perfect. We will always wish for better things, better features, a better job, etc. But life does not need to be perfect for people to be happy about themselves. Self-improvement and loving yourself is not a matter of shouting to the whole world that you are the perfect one and the best at everything. It’s the virtue of acceptance and contentment - begin to improve ourselves, and we begin to feel contented and happy.

About the Author: Kerenza Faram is the author of several informative articles on self improvement. Gain immediate access to 50 of the world's most reknowned speakers and excellent self improvement courses.

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Don't worry over anything whatever; tell God every detail of your needs in earnest and thankful prayer, and the peace of God which transcends human understanding, will keep constant guard over your hearts and minds as they rest in Christ Jesus. (Phillips Translation - Php 4:6 6-7 )
Psa 139:12  even the darkness will not be dark to you;
the night will shine like the day,
for darkness is as light to you.

Psa 139:13  For you created my inmost being;
you knit me together in my mother's womb.

Psa 139:14  I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
your works are wonderful,
I know that full well.
(NIV Translation)